The truth is that large corporate Dating websites that
feature thousands of unbelievably beautiful Russian and Ukrainian women, costly
internet correspondence, pay per minute web-chat, phone calls and socials are
lying to you. The overwhelming majority of
the women featured on these sites have no intention of ever leaving their home
country for an Ordinary Joe and these websites know it. These sites make it seem as if they are
giving these stunning ladies away at the airport and all you need to do is write
a few letters, spend some time chatting or to attend one of their tour
socials. Nothing could be further from
the truth.
The truth about the overwhelming majority of these Russian
Bride websites is that they are just interested in separating you from your
money, one letter at a time and in reality they could care less if you find
what you are looking for or not. These
sites are largely populated from sources that are not real marriage agencies. They are largely unregulated and react in a
reactionary fashion to any problems that you might have, if at all. Their systems are set up to make money and
nothing more. Their correspondence is
largely unverified and really you have no way of knowing if you are
corresponding with the lady in the profile or not. On-line chat aka Pay per chat is even
worse. If the lady has no web cam then
you have no way of knowing if you are truly chatting with the lady in the
profile or not. Even if the lady does
have a web cam, we have learned that she is more than likely chatting with many
fellows simultaneously and being compensated in some way. The host website really has no way to
regulate this. They have set up a system
that is easily manipulated by those who are only trying to make money. Socials are largely unorganized and
unscreened. Most of the ladies that you
write to will not be at this social, as is implied. Real ladies that are truly looking for a
husband will not attend these socials again after experiencing one first
hand. Do the math, 400 girls, 50
guys?
Does it sound like a legitimate way for a lady to meet a
man? Also, most of the girls getting all
the attention are the young and pretty ones that are just there for gifts,
dinners and money being lavished upon them by unsuspecting, uninitiated suckers
that attend. You would actually be
better off finding a lady in one of Kiev or Odessa 's many nightclubs
than at one of these socials. At least
the ladies at the nightclubs do not have some preconceived plan to separate you
from your money and leave you high and dry.
Do some men find their ladies this way? Yes, some do get lucky, but the number is so
small that it is not even worth consideration.
You probably have a much better chance of being struck by lightning than
you do using one of the methods listed above on one of these Russian Bride
Meat-Market websites. Also, of those men
that are successful, with Russian Brides and other sorts of foreign brides, no
more than roughly 17% of those unions last more than a year once the lady is in
the U.S, per the USCIS statistics. Why
do so many foreign brides go home? It is
probably because their union is based on misconceptions and misinformation that
is perpetuated by these Russian Bride websites.
The man and the woman are expecting something that may not exist with
this particular person and they are ultimately doomed to fail.
So, what is a man or a woman that is looking for a foreign
marriage to do? Are any of the women or
agencies that populate these sites real and legitimate? Yes, but how do you know which ones? Believe it or not, for every 100 or so
unscrupulous so-called "marriage agencies" in the Former Soviet
Union, there are a few real ones that provide a legitimate service to both their
male and female clients. But how do you
find these sites? Unfortunately it is
very difficult. Because of financial
limitations, even good agencies are forced to work with these Corporate Russian
Bride Factory websites so that they can attract clients to their agencies and
stay afloat while doing so. The unfortunate
thing is that the large website seldom funnels clients directly to these
agencies, so few men ever find them.
Why subject yourself to the unknown that is offered by these
large correspondence sites?