I advise most gentlemen to meet more than one lady when traveling to Ukraine and some suitors are surprised by this recommendation, thinking it rude or disloyal to the ladies who grace our site. However, there are many solid reasons Western suitors should arrange dates with multiple women. Here are a few.
While it doesn't happen often, things come up and a lady may have to miss a scheduled meeting due to injury, illness, a busy work schedule, or just plain nerves. Schedule mismatches are a particular risk if a gentleman plans a surprise visit and doesn't coordinate his schedule with a lady's. It's also possible that a lady and gentleman just won't hit it off. Chemistry is something that can only be evaluated face to face and though two people may get along well online they may simply not mesh well in person. When this happens, it's helpful if gentlemen have arranged meetings with other women. Many suitors have hit it off wonderfully with so-called backup dates, so men shouldn't be too distraught if a first choice doesn't work out.
While it's acceptable, and even advisable, to make plans to meet more than one woman while traveling to Eastern Europe, it's not something Western suitors should discuss with the ladies. The women are well aware that many gentlemen court more than one lady in their quest for a Russian bride, but that doesn't mean they want to hear about it. Plus, no woman wants to think of herself of a "backup" date. Tact and discretion are the best way to avoid hurt feelings and awkward encounters.
Is it rude or disloyal to schedule dates with more than one woman while visiting Ukraine? No. It's always smart to be prepared, especially when it comes to international visits. As long as a suitor is polite and discreet about his multiple meetings, he should have no problems with the ladies but still enjoy the best chance of finding a Russian love match.
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