The beauty of Ukrainian or Russian women are well known all
over the world. However, the natural desire to take care of themselves and look
their best is not the only trait that sets Russian women apart from everybody
else. Every Russian woman knows how to stay abreast of the latest fashion
trends, apply the make-up the proper way, and groom her hair to look her best.
But the physical looks of Russian women is not the decisive factor when it
comes to attraction with men. Russian women have something more that helps them
to conquer the hearts of men not only in Russia . This precious thing is a
"mysterious Russian soul" (according to the Russian classical
writers, загáдочная рýсская душá), family values, personality traits, and a
very traditional outlook on life.
The family is the priority
Emancipation might have spread all over the world but Ukrainian
or Russian women stay faithful to the traditional views of the male and female
roles in a relationship. A Ukrainian or Russian man is considered to be a
provider who supplies the family with tangible assets, while a woman is viewed
as a housewife and the mother of children. In contemporary Russia , many
women use all the opportunities to get a good education, get a good job and
build their careers. However, family (семья́) always remains the main priority
for most Russian women.
Pride and Modesty
Most Ukrainian women can be described as modest and friendly
(скро́мные и приве́тливые). Being brought up according to patriarchal
traditions, Russian women are acquiescent with men being the authority. In Russia , women
never rush to break up or end their relationship with a divorce. They instead
use every possible chance to save their marriage and continue the relationship
with the man of their choice.
Russian women place great importance on romance. They like
when men give them flowers and read poetry. At the same time, expensive gifts
might be a bit of a concern. Russian women are very proud of themselves and
will be unlikely to accept an expensive present that will indebt them if
accepted. At any rate, there are no rules to obey if a Russian woman is in
love. Even if they can't be named the women with southern temperament, the
Russian women are very passionate and tend to fall in love once and for all.
Ukrainian and Russian brides: Reasons to marry a foreigner
Ukrainian women are also famous for being excellent
housewives, great cooks and loving mothers. They usually learn since childhood
how to cook traditional Russian meals and they love doing it. Besides, it's not
very common to keep a housemaid in Russia . That's why Russian women
are used to doing all housework themselves. These qualities of Russian women
are highly valued by men in Russia
and many other countries. In fact, there are many foreigners who are happy to
have a Russian wife (рýсская женá), as well as there are many Russian girls who
dream of marrying a man from abroad.
The reason behind this frame of mind is because Russian
patriarchal traditions, which we have already mentioned above, also make men
used to being the head of the family and, sometimes, men take for granted all
the love and care that Russian women make available to them. The lack of
respect from some Russian men is the reason for Russian women to seek a
romantic partner abroad, hoping for a match who can provide for the family and
care about the children.
On the other hand, foreign men tend to respect their love
from abroad more and that makes their wives happier. Moreover it's always a
great experience to build an intercultural family in which two people can
interchange not only their personal experiences but also the heritage of their
countries. But it is certainly more difficult and requests patience and respect
from both husband and wife
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