You are a lonely man and you want to find your soul mate.
But you don't try to find easy ways in your searching. So here you are, on Ukrainian
dating site. You have found an lady that interests you and you have decided to
write her "Hi!". Now you are ? etc and you are waiting for her
answer. And here it is! She finally writes you "Hello". But now you feel some
fear inside. You ask yourself: "What do I do next?
What should I speak about to a Ukrainian lady ?" And
you know that you can't be silent to long. She will be bored and won't write
you again. But you don't want to lose this chance. So what should the man write
to a Ukrainian or Russian lady to be interesting and charming to her?
Usually men give the leadership to a woman being limited by
short replies. But even the most communicative Russian or Ukrainian women will
write you "So, now tell me something I have not heard before ".
First of all you shouldn't worry. There are a lot of
different topics you can write her about. It can be:
•A story about your childhood. Tell her about your studying
at school, what you studied , about you have pets, funny stories about them and
so on. Russian and Ukrainian women like when man speak about there childhood. It shows them that you are quite an
open man.
•Your family. It will be great if you tell her about your
family. Write her an amazing story of the first meeting of your parents if you
know it. write about your brothers and
sisters and your relationships with them. She will imagine how much of a family
man you are. It would be also great if you tell her about your family
traditions. This would be one thing
Ukrainian woman will be very interested in it because she knows that
different countries have different
traditions. Some traditions can be new and unusual to her.
•Your hobbies . Write her about your preferences in art,
sports, music, food, your attitude to travelling and other things . Maybe you
both have the same interests and you will have a lot to talk about. Don't
forget that some kind of sports in Ukraine
or Russia
are not as popular as in your country. For example you like to play golf. So it
might be interesting for a lady to get to know about it. Anyway, the man with
hobbies will be very interesting for
ladies from Ukraine
.
•Your aspirations and goals. Ukrainian women like a purposeful
man. You should tell about your dreams and what you do to reach them. She will
appreciate it.
•Your achievements in Life so far. Every Ukrainian lady
views a man as her future husband. That's why this information will be very
important for her.
These where the first steps to a successful conversation. So
what you should not write to Ukrainian and Russian women? First of all don't
lie to her. Women hate lies and usually do not forgive them.
The only way not to be confuse in your stories is not to
lie. Of course you could just read your previous letters. But what will you do
if you meet this lady in real life some day? You can lose her forever because
of lies.
You also shouldn't write all the time about your superiority.
It is not interesting to a lady to read for hours and hours about how cool you
are, she will not know how she should answer you. But you shouldn't write every
time how perfect she is too. Ukrainian and Russian women can be pretty shy, so she will feel uncomfortable
because of it.
If you don't want to hurt a Ukrainian women you are writing
to you should not discuss with her other people, especially other girls. She
will feel unpleasant feelings. It can push her away from you.
Try not to speak about something specific too long. Even the
most interesting topic of discussion can get your lady bored. And if you
noticed that your woman is losing her interest in your conversation, you should
gradually start to talk about something else.
Don't forget that you have a dialogue. It is important to
remember that women don't like when a man speaks too much. So if she asked you to
tell her about something, don't try to write her everything in your first
letter.
If you want the woman to like you, don't complain about your
life. Not every woman will like a moaner and a complainer. She will imagine how
you are complaining about all life
problems every day. It will be a big minus for you in her
eyes.
You also should try to avoid a dispute. It is not a good
variant of speaking the first time. But if you become closer after some time in
your conversation, you will be able to discuss everything you want. And the
lady won't be hurt.
What can help you to become a gentleman in your lady's eyes?
You should be very polite in all your
messages. Ukrainian women won't waste their time with a rough and tactless man.
Tell her a few original compliments, she will appreciate it.
You also should have a few interesting and funny stories or jokes to tell. All
women like men with a good sense of humor. also ask her some non-standard
questions like "What a lovely name you have. Why did your parents decided
to give you exactly this name?" or "What would you wish if you had
three wishes?". Ladies like questions like these. But be ready to give
your own answer to these same questions.
And finally the most important advice: be yourself. Don't
try to become someone else and everything will work out.
